
I read an interesting article today about two different women who made their decisions to go back to a store based on what was said to them this time of year. One was going to flat out challenge employees to say 'Merry Christmas' after she made the initial move, the other would only return if she got a 'Happy Holidays'. I think both of them are a little insane.
First off, I certainly would by happy to get a friendly greeting of "Happy Holidays", though this year I am tempted to ask which holiday they are referring to. Seriously! There are tons. This year the Solstice is going to be on the 21st. Yule is celebrated at that time too.
Hanukkah starts on the 22
nd and runs through the 29
th. Christmas, is of course, the 25
th. Kwanzaa starts on the 26
th and runs through the first day of the New Year. There is even
Muharram on the 29
th, the Islamic New Year. So for what I have counted, that's six different holidays, not counting New Years, in an eighteen day spread.
The Catholic church really bungled this one, using this as a
band aid to cover all the pagan celebrations this time of year. Nonetheless, I still plan on celebrating it in the Christian context, with a nod to the Solstice (I think it's fun and enlightening to celebrate some of the non-'traditional' days everyone used to celebrate a few hundred years ago). So all the 'Happy Holiday' people will be getting a hearty 'Merry Christmas' as my reply. And if they choose to give me funny looks for daring to name what the majority of what everyone is actually celebrating anyways, I shall ask them to which holiday they were referring.
And that does make me wonder, all these people, these secular people bent on including everyone and not naming Christ and his day that we are all celebrating, do they truly not have a Christmas tree? Is it perhaps topped with an angel or a star (representative of the star over Bethlehem)? Do they have candy canes (recalling
shepherds crooks and the story of the nativity)? Perhaps?
Well if their trees no longer represent Christmas and Christ, do they hearken back to their ancient roots? The evergreen tree represents rebirth and renewal as the pagans saw it. Santa Claus has Christian origins, generous to children. The Yule Log is most
certainly pagan, burning on the Solstice from dusk till dawn (and longer), but now situated with Christmas tradition. Wreaths and garlands of evergreens, holly, and mistletoe adorn homes, back to when celebrating pagans would adorn their homes for their festivities. Do they do these things because they are honoring ancient practices?
Well, then, just what are they celebrating?
Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or
Muharram? If they can't answer with anything specific (love, brotherhood, the season, etc. do not count), then they are simply posers, doing things because the Joneses are doing them and they look pretty. "I can do it if I want to!" certainly, but why are you doing it? If you aren't really celebrating anything, then why participate in Christian and Pagan rituals?
It's okay, you may borrow my huff to leave in.
And if anyone wants to wish me a Happy
Hanukkah, or Solstice, or Yule, or Kwanzaa, or
Muharram, I will not be offended. I will smile and say thank-you and wish a Merry Christmas (as I don't think it's proper to give greetings for a holiday you aren't celebrating) in return, since that is what I shall be celebrating.